This Gospel is so clear it might make us squirm. We understand what Jesus is saying, but how does it strike our hearts? What about that one person I just can’t get along with? Is Jesus really speaking about that one? Yes, he is! To live this Gospel, I need to be at peace with everyone. If I have hurt another person, I need to apologize and make amends. Still, human life is messy, and some relationships will never be restored. I can’t control the thoughts and actions of other people. Sometimes people take offense when none was intended or given, and refuse any relationship. In those painful cases, the reconciliation Jesus asks for has to take place in my own heart, that I bear no grudge and pray for that person.
Polycarp, the saint we celebrate today, offers us a wonderful example of reconciliation. The bishop of Smyrna in Asia Minor, he was martyred at the age of 86, around the year 155. We’re fortunate to have the Acts of his martyrdom, which gives us a wonderful glimpse of his personality. The government was persecuting Christians, and Polycarp thought it prudent to go into hiding. But one of his household servants betrayed him to the police, and led them to the bishop. When they all arrived at the house, instead of getting angry at the betrayal, Polycarp welcomed the servant and the police. “He ordered that something to eat and drink should be set before them, as much indeed as they wanted, while he asked them to allow him an hour to pray without disturbance.” He prayed for two hours, “remembering everyone who had at any time come in contact with him, both small and great, illustrious and obscure, as well as the whole Catholic Church throughout the world.” Then they led Polycarp off to be killed.
He was at peace and even showed his sense of humor. In the arena, Polycarp was told to swear an oath, saying, “Away with the atheists!”—meaning the Christians, who were called atheists because they refused to worship the Roman gods. Instead, looking up at the whole crowd of the lawless heathens then in the stadium, and waving his hand toward them, he said, “Away with the atheists!” After being urged again to denounce Christ, Polycarp declared, “I have served him for eighty-six years and he never did me any injury. How can I blaspheme my King and my Savior?” Then he went out to meet his death by fire and sword.
We can admire the way Polycarp graciously welcomed his enemies and served them, even when they came to drag him to his death. Polycarp offered his own life in union with the Eucharistic sacrifice, which he had often celebrated as a priest and bishop. At Mass, we too can offer the gift of our lives day by day, with a heart open to all. May this Lent help us to become more like Jesus, just as Polycarp gave himself for the Lord.
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